I have managed to do it and it was so easy 2!!!
all i needed was a proxy program. I spent an age messing with ICS in windows and using sygate etc. but i downloaded a small program called proxyi.
I just had to
1) Set my LAN to use ip to 10.0.0.2 and the other comp LAN to 10.0.0.1
2) Change iexplorer options LAN setting to use proxy 10.0.0.1 port 6588 (the ip of the other comp)
thats it i can now surf on both comps!!!!
It even works the other way round. So i can now dial up on either comp and so long as i run the small proxy program on that computer the other computer has access to inet. I dont need to change iexplorers proxy settings either when i dial up as normal and dont use the proxy.
the program is limited to what u can use, i believe you cant use real player through it and some other things. So i am now looking for a similar but better proxy program.
If anyone else has had this problem i hope you managed to read what i have posted and it works for you 2.
Thanks again for your time larry